Common Custody Mistakes

Episode Summary:
In this episode of Counsel and Community, Sarah Green, Certified High-Conflict Divorce Coach and Family Law Non-Attorney Mediator, joins Brett A. Nelson, Founding Attorney of Nelson Law Group, PC , to break down the most common custody mistakes parents make — and how to avoid them. From unclear custody agreements to emotional conflict and poor communication, they share real examples of how small oversights can create lasting family stress. Sarah also gives practical advice for keeping children out of the middle and protecting their emotional well-being during custody disputes.

Key Timestamps:

00:00 – Introduction to common custody mistakes
01:15 – Why unclear custody orders cause future disputes
03:00 – How vague parenting terms lead to court battles
05:00 – Example of confusion over visitation schedules
06:45 – Sarah explains how children absorb parental conflict
08:30 – The emotional damage of putting kids in the middle
10:00 – Brett’s advice: think long-term and model healthy behavior
12:00 – Mindful moment: Reflect on how your actions affect your child

About the Show:
Counsel and Community brings together attorneys from Nelson Law Group to share real-life legal insight and personal growth advice. Each episode offers practical guidance to help families navigate divorce, custody, finances, and life’s toughest transitions with clarity and confidence.